If you think that a husband is making a mess in your life, perhaps, blame your misconceptions about the procedure. if he puts the newspaper on the floor and reading them? Perhaps your newspaper table is too small, or just piled trinkets that he had no choice. Displays whether you off his habit to fill up to the top ashtray with cigarette butts? Buy him a huge ashtray, and not one, but several. Does he have the habit of putting your feet on an embroidered ottoman? Put the ottoman in the guest room and get for this purpose a simple plastic bench.