The need to censure when we feel the need to blame, it seems to us that we do not need approval. And we behave in such a way as to avoid the approval. As in the case of need for approval, we are focused on themselves, timid and shy. Overly concerned about the opinions of others, while pretending that they care about us deeply. We often say "no", but just as easily can answer "yes". Lord it over others to ensure their hostility to us. We are avoiding responsibility and leave many important unfinished business. We make every effort to become nepopulyarnymi.Etu need easily recognized by her distinctive relation "leave-me-at-ease." When we feel the need to blame, it seems to us that we do not need love, so we are doing our best to make sure that it did not receive. We need to censure a lot of synonyms: the desire to be rejected, unpopular, disliked, despised, to hide, to be alone, to be misunderstood, and it is only a short list. Letting go of the need to censure, we gain the ability to be loved and accepted, to love and accept others.