We must care for each other. It often happens that one spouse feels undeservedly forgotten, deprived of love, but is silent, because it depends on another, for example, material. Or in the family is not made to hurt each other, the sharp edges are concealed. And that is another tactic wrong. In family life without conflicts can not do, but you should be able to resolve them. If suddenly there were some differences, it is necessary to discuss them calmly and find a common solution. At the same time everyone should see their own shortcomings instead of blaming the other. Another can not be changed! I heard as a young wife threatened to "re-educate" man-slut. It will not work, will only scandals, and then illness. If any character trait you are not happy in your future life partner, think if you can put up with it. If you can not, if you are very annoying, do not bind the life with this man.