About one in three babies who were born with all the signs excitable amygdala, got rid of shyness at the time of admission to kindergarten. These observations of the behavior in the home environment of these, especially shy children show that parents, and especially mothers, play a major role in whether there is by nature a shy child with time more daring or so and will be afraid of everything new and lose composure, encountering any difficulties. During research employees Cagan's group found that some women were of the opinion that they should protect their timid toddlers from anything that can them upset, while others thought it was more important to help a shy child to learn to overcome the unpleasant moments and thus better able to cope with small troubles of life. Installing nazaschitu or conservative position seems to have only increased fearfulness, depriving children of the opportunity to learn to overcome their fears. The philosophy of "Science adapt" adopted as a basis for the child's upbringing, helping children, burdened with all sorts of fears, gain courage.